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12-step teen programs vs evidence-based treatment: the research
How 12-step and behavior-based teen programs compare to evidence-based clinical models like MDFT, FFT, and A-CRA — and what the adolescent research shows.
Does couples therapy work? The research on weekly and intensive formats
What the research shows about couples therapy effectiveness — success rates for EFT and Gottman method, and the evidence on intensive and retreat formats.
Residential vs community-based teen treatment: what the research says
The evidence comparing residential treatment with community-based care for struggling teens — outcomes, durability, and how to decide which fits your situation.
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Teen mental health levels of care explained: outpatient to residential
A plain-language map of teen treatment levels — outpatient, IOP, PHP, residential, inpatient — what each is for, and how intensive family work fits in.
Marriage retreats and therapy intensives: when a focused format may help
Marriage retreats and therapy intensives offer focused time for couples who need more than a weekly hour. Learn when they help and when they may not fit.
Family Wellness Retreat vs Therapy Retreat: How to Choose
Wellness retreat or therapy retreat? What each actually delivers, what they cost, and how to choose the right one for your family.
Marriage retreat vs marriage intensive vs couples therapy retreat: which do I need?
Three terms used interchangeably that refer to clinically different things. The format differences, what each fits, and which matches your situation.
Nature therapy vs ecotherapy vs wilderness therapy compared
Three terms used interchangeably that shouldn't be. A clinical breakdown of nature therapy, ecotherapy, and wilderness therapy — and when each fits.
What is a therapeutic family vacation?
A therapeutic family vacation is a real trip with clinical work woven in — not therapy interrupting the trip, not vacation pretending to be therapy.
What is adult wilderness therapy? A clinical overview
Adult wilderness therapy is a specific clinical model — distinct from the teen programs the term often evokes. A former wilderness therapist explains.
What to expect from a couples therapy retreat
An honest walk-through of the structure, the actual work, the harder moments, and the integration period — from a clinician who runs these retreats.
Why wilderness works for trauma — and where it doesn't
The clinical mechanisms behind wilderness therapy for trauma — why the format produces movement weekly sessions can't, and where the model fails.
Alternatives to wilderness therapy: a former therapist's view
A former wilderness, residential, and transition-home clinician on how family-based intensive therapy fits alongside wilderness and residential options.
Defiant teenager help: family-based options that work
Defiance in adolescence isn't usually what it looks like. A clinician's view on what's actually happening and what the evidence supports for families.
Family therapy for troubled teens: when it works
Family therapy is often the most effective intervention for adolescent presentations — and sometimes it's the wrong tool. When it works, when it doesn't.
My teenager is out of control: what to do first
When a teenager seems out of control, families are often shown wilderness and residential options first. Family-based intensive work is also strong.
Therapeutic boarding school vs family intensive: a comparison
A former wilderness and residential clinician compares therapeutic boarding schools and family intensive therapy — what each does and which fits.
Troubled teen programs vs family-based alternatives: the research
The evidence on troubled teen programs — wilderness, residential, therapeutic boarding schools — and how family-based intensive therapy fits alongside.
What to do with a troubled teenager — without sending them away
A practical clinical view on what to do when your teenager is struggling — what to try first, what to avoid, and when family-based intensive work fits.
ADHD with depression, anxiety, or OCD: why the overlap matters
ADHD often overlaps with anxiety, depression, or OCD symptoms. Learn how the patterns can feed each other and why treatment needs to look at the whole system.
ADHD burnout: symptoms, causes, and what recovery requires
ADHD burnout can look like exhaustion, shutdown, and loss of functioning. Learn what causes it, why rest alone may not fix it, and how therapy helps.
ADHD task paralysis: why you freeze and how therapy helps
ADHD task paralysis is not laziness. Learn why starting can feel impossible, what keeps the freeze cycle going, and how therapy can help.
How to Break the Anxious-Avoidant Pursue-Withdraw Cycle
Anxious-avoidant relationships get stuck in a pursue-withdraw cycle. Learn why it happens, what keeps it going, and the steps that actually break it.
AuDHD in adults and women: when autism and ADHD overlap
AuDHD describes the overlap of autism and ADHD. Learn why it is often missed in adults and women, what it can feel like, and how therapy can help.
Counseling for cheating: what therapy can and cannot do after betrayal
Counseling for cheating can help couples understand the betrayal, decide what repair requires, and avoid repeating the same painful cycle.
Is couples therapy covered by insurance? Cost, private pay, and what to ask
Couples therapy is often private pay and may not be covered by insurance. Learn why, what affects cost, and what questions to ask before starting.
Dismissive avoidant attachment: why closeness can feel like pressure
Dismissive avoidant attachment can make emotional closeness feel intrusive or unsafe. Learn how it shows up and how therapy can help.
Fearful avoidant attachment: wanting closeness and fearing it at the same time
Fearful avoidant or disorganized attachment can create intense push-pull relationship patterns. Learn what drives it and how therapy can help.
The Gottman Four Horsemen: what they are and how couples can respond
The Gottman Four Horsemen are criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. Learn how they damage relationships and what to practice instead.
High-functioning ADHD and masking: when you look capable but feel exhausted
High-functioning ADHD often depends on masking, urgency, and overcompensation. Learn the signs, why it leads to burnout, and how therapy helps.
High-functioning depression: when life looks fine but isn't
High-functioning depression can hide behind productivity and responsibility. Learn the signs, why it is easy to miss, and how therapy helps.
Marriage therapy for infidelity: what couples need after an affair
Marriage therapy for infidelity helps couples slow the chaos, clarify what happened, and decide whether repair is possible after betrayal.
Premarital counseling questions to ask before marriage
Premarital counseling questions should go deeper than wedding plans. Here are the topics that help couples build clarity before marriage.
How to rebuild trust after cheating: what has to change
Rebuilding trust after cheating takes more than apologies. Learn what repair requires, what slows it down, and how couples therapy can help.
Signs your marriage may be over, or still repairable
Wondering if your marriage is over can feel terrifying. Learn signs of serious distress, signs repair may still be possible, and how therapy can help.
What does ADHD therapy help with? Practical support beyond productivity tips
ADHD therapy can help with executive dysfunction, emotion regulation, shame, relationships, burnout, and systems that fit real life.
Avoidant attachment: what it is and whether it can change
Avoidant attachment isn't a character flaw — it's a strategy that once made sense. Learn how it develops and what it takes to change.
Discernment counseling: what it is and who it's actually for
Discernment counseling is for couples where one partner is unsure they want to save the marriage. It's different from couples therapy.
Relationship anxiety: what triggers it and how therapy helps
Relationship anxiety is a pattern of fear and reassurance-seeking that persists no matter how the relationship is going. What therapy can actually do about it.
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